NEW YEAR’S DAY

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You are reading from the book The Language Of Letting Go.
The New Year
Make New Year’s goals. Dig within, and discover what you would like to have happen in your life this year. This helps you do your part. It is an affirmation that you’re interested in fully living life in the year to come.
Goals give us direction. They put a powerful force into play on a universal, conscious, and subconscious level.
Goals give our life direction.
What would you like to have happen in your life this year? What would you like to do, to accomplish? What good would you like to attract into your life? What particular areas of growth would you like to have happen to you? What blocks, or character defects, would you like to have removed?
What would you like to attain? Little things and big things? Where would you like to go? What would you like to have happen in friendship and love? What would you like to have happen in your family life?
Remember, we aren’t controlling others with our goals – we are trying to give direction to our life.
What problems would you like to see solved? What decisions would you like to make? What would you like to happen in your career?
What would you like to see happen inside and around you?
Write it down. Take a piece of paper, a few hours of your time, and write it all down – as an affirmation of you, your life, and your ability to choose. Then let it go.
Certainly, things happen that are out of our control. Sometimes, these events are pleasant surprises; sometimes, they are of another nature. But they are all part of the chapter that will be this year in our life and will lead us forward in the story.
The New Year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. We can help write that story by setting goals.
Today, I will remember that there is a powerful force motivated by writing dawn goals. I will do that now, for the year to come, and regularly as needed. I will do it not to control but to do my part in living my life.

WELL THEN, LETS HAVE A THINK ABOUT THIS ONE.

MAKE NEW YEAR’S GOALS. 

One goal is to see with Remi’s eyes. The magic. The beauty. The childlike vision with the energy and commonsense to bring it into being.

Dig within, and discover what you would like to have happen in your life this year.

I would like my ankles to remain visible. To have the fluid stay off, the bleeding cease as it is at the moment, the breathing ease and the muscles firm. I would like to feel well as I do this last week or so. And even better and for the weight to come off and the thinking to remain clear.

I WOULD like to have freedom from the personality attacks and some travel and to sell one of the cars and tidy the property and get to more meetings.I would like to have the great relief of someone to talk to. I would actually like to have a lover again.

I would like to improve the quality of my sobriety which has been damaged by the traumas. I would like quality relationships with sane and well balanced loving people.

This helps you do your part. It is an affirmation that you’re interested in fully living life in the year to come.

Goals give us direction. They put a powerful force into play on a universal, conscious, and subconscious level.

Goals give our life direction.

AND FOR ME, when all else goes askew, then the Primary Purpose keeps me going . Staying clean and helping others to stay clean.

JUST DON’T USE. It ALWAYS buys me another day. So that’s the one big goal. STAY CLEAN NO MATTER WHAT.

the ONE THING ONLY CATEGORY.

One thing only – well let me think. Make it the staying clean.

What would you like to have happen in your life this year?

TO HAVE HAPPEN – hmmmmm – I would like the tension and distress to vanish.

Last couple of months, I have begun to sleep normally and now I actually feel better but I would sure like the rigid holding together to disappear.

What would you like to do, to accomplish?

I would like to stay in one place , with travel, more meetings and increased health.

What good would you like to attract into your life?

I would like to attract wellness – a feeling of wellness – spiritually, emotionally, physically and mentally as well as in my dealings with people and in my affairs.

What particular areas of growth would you like to have happen to you?

Hmmm – again. I would like to see the self pity go and my relationships with other people improve especially as regards taking better care of myself and my time.

What blocks, or character defects, would you like to have removed?

Self pity and despair.

What would you like to attain? Little things and big things?

Peace. Joy. An interest. A contentment. Health and fitness.

A gardener and helper. A Friend. $1000 for one of the cars. Caravan cleaned and fitted out.

A new camera and an iPad or equivalent.

A happy relationship with each of my loved ones.

A gentler tongue but stronger character.

Where would you like to go?

I would like to go to EDEN, SYDNEY, BRISBANE, TWEEED AND GOLD COAST, AIRLIE BEACH, MACKAY, LISMORE AND BYRON AND NEW ZEALAND.

What would you like to have happen in friendship and love?

I would like to have someone to love again. I would like a companion and friend. I would like to  have a shoulder to rest upon. I would like to be less open to foolish friendships .

What would you like to have happen in your family life?

I would like us all to live closer. I would like to butt in less and simply love and enjoy and be with them. I would like all ill feeling to vanish and I would like to learn to hug and cuddle and behave like an Elder, a Grandmother and Mother.

Remember, we aren’t controlling others with our goals – we are trying to give direction to our life.

What problems would you like to see solved?

The cars. Health. Getting to enough meetings. Seeing the Eden people and Saf more often. Yard maintenance. My difficulties with people.

What decisions would you like to make?

Hmmm. Hey this is hard work. Trying to capture the essence.

I would like to make decisions about the cars, home and – ah. One big decision I need to make is about whether or not I take the Harvoni for Hep C.

What would you like to happen in your career?

I am RETIRED but I would like work of interest. Like Elder in a rehab or something I have not yet thought of.

Then again I would like to go fishing.

What would you like to see happen inside and around you?

Inside- I would like to see peace and strength come and faith.

Outside – A little more I can do. More meetings available. And my home in order and secure.

Write it down. Take a piece of paper, a few hours of your time, and write it all down – as an affirmation of you, your life, and your ability to choose. Then let it go.
Certainly, things happen that are out of our control. Sometimes, these events are pleasant surprises; sometimes, they are of another nature. But they are all part of the chapter that will be this year in our life and will lead us forward in the story.
The New Year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. We can help write that story by setting goals.
Today, I will remember that there is a powerful force motivated by writing dawn goals. I will do that now, for the year to come, and regularly as needed. I will do it not to control but to do my part in living my life.

DONE – but I don’t like the feel of it. Nonetheless – it is DONE.

TIME FOR BED.

LET IT ALL GO.

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